The Asifunde Nathi blog

Asifunde Indaba

Stories, tips and ideas for raising children who learn in their own language. Practical, research-backed advice for South African families.

💬 Indaba: a gathering where people come together to talk things through
A mother laughing with her daughter in school uniform on the couch after school
⭐ Start here · Home language

Why South African children lose their home language (and how to stop it)

Many children in English-medium schools slowly stop speaking isiZulu, Sesotho or isiXhosa. Here is why it happens, why it matters, and what parents can do.

7 min read
Nine colourful Asifunde Nathi colouring workbooks wrapped as a Christmas gift with a red ribbon
🗣️ Home language

A gift from Gogo: 9 Christmas gifts that help grandchildren learn their home language

Looking for a meaningful Christmas gift for your grandchildren? These ideas, from printable workbooks to voice-note stories and traditional games, help children learn and love their home language.

5 min read
Illustration of a morabaraba board with a line of three cows forming a mill
🧮 Learning at home

Morabaraba rules for kids: how to play, step by step

A simple guide to morabaraba, South Africa's favourite strategy board game. Draw the board, learn the rules for placing, moving, flying and making mills, and teach it to children by age.

7 min read
A father and young son pointing at picture cards on the floor at home
📚 Language guides

How to teach your child isiZulu at home in 10 minutes a day

A simple, playful 10-minute daily routine to teach your child isiZulu at home, with a 4-week word plan, everyday phrases and tips for busy parents.

6 min read
A mother cooking with her two young children in a bright kitchen
📚 Language guides

Teaching your child isiXhosa at home: everyday words, clicks and routines

Turn everyday routines into isiXhosa lessons. Morning, kitchen, car, bath and bedtime words for children, plus fun ways to practise the c, q and x clicks.

5 min read
A father and daughter in a garden pointing up at a bird in a tree
📚 Language guides

Teaching your child Sesotho at home: words, games and nature walks

Practical ways to teach your child Sesotho at home, from greetings and family words to outdoor word games, counting and a note on South African spelling.

5 min read
A toddler holding a glass of water at the kitchen table with her mother
📚 Language guides

12 everyday words in 9 South African languages (with a free table)

Water, dog, sun, book and more in isiZulu, isiXhosa, siSwati, isiNdebele, Sesotho, Setswana, Sepedi, Xitsonga and Tshivenda, plus hello and thank you.

5 min read
A young boy talking excitedly at breakfast while his parents listen and smile
💛 Parenting

Raising bilingual children: 7 myths South African parents still hear

Will two languages confuse your child or delay their speech? We bust seven common myths about raising bilingual children in South Africa, with what research says.

6 min read
A mother reading a picture book to her two children in bed at night
🌙 Reading

Bedtime stories in African languages: why they matter and where to find them

Bedtime stories in isiZulu, isiXhosa, Sesotho and other South African languages build reading and language skills. Here is how to make it a habit and where to find free books.

6 min read
A young girl using a tablet at home with her mother sitting beside her
💛 Parenting

How much screen time is okay? A South African parent's guide by age

What the WHO and paediatricians recommend for screen time from babies to age 10, how to pick good learning apps, and simple family rules that actually work.

6 min read
A father homeschooling his two children at a dining table with books, a globe and a laptop
🏡 Homeschooling

Homeschooling in South Africa 2026: the BELA Act and how to register

Thinking about homeschooling in South Africa? What the law says after the BELA Act, how registration and assessments work, curriculum choices and a realistic daily routine.

6 min read
A grandmother and her grandson laughing together on a garden patio
🗣️ Home language

Gogo's gift: how grandparents can keep your child's home language alive

Grandparents are a family's richest source of language, stories and heritage. Practical ideas for gogos and mkhulus to pass on isiZulu, Sesotho, Xitsonga and more, even from far away.

6 min read
Illustration of South African coins, banknotes and a piggy bank
🧮 Learning at home

Teaching children about money: rands and cents made easy

Fun, age-by-age ways to teach South African children about rands and cents, from recognising coins to giving change, saving and running a pretend spaza shop.

5 min read
Illustration of a wooden morabaraba board with light and dark cows
🧮 Learning at home

8 screen-free learning games every South African child should know

From morabaraba and diketo to kgati and bottle-top maths, these traditional and everyday South African games teach counting, strategy, language and teamwork.

6 min read

Learning that speaks their language

Games, stories and a weekly plan in nine South African languages, for ages 2 to 10. Free for 7 days.

Start free trial